Soul mates

Q: A person that I really would like to be in myl ife asked me to ask you when she's going to meet her soul mate.
Abe: Well, our answer to her is: when she no longer
thinks it's missing. (Pause.) Sound familiar?
Q: Mm-hm.
Abe: Our answer to her is: when she achievesvibrational alignment with that which is her soul,then she will recognize that which matches that. And until then, that soul mate could be right under her nose and she would not know it.
Abe -- Boston, MA, 10/2/04

Guest. So if your inner being could have concurrently be incarnated into a multitude of individuals in the physical format as we know it today, what are the implications of that in relation to your own individuality and stuff like that.
Abe. Well, you would have full individuality. In fact much of the time if one of those aspects were to run into another one of those aspects you would not even have a recognition of it. It is the true implication of the term soul mate or twin flame. When you are in a moment of true connection which just means that you have no resistance, your cork is floating, your energy is vibrating in that high pure fast place that is natural to you. And you were to bump into one of those other aspects that was the same energy and that physical human also was in a moment of appreciation and connection, when the two of you rendezvoused, you would have a strong delicious encounter. That's truly what that in love feeling is. That's truly what that feeling of coming home is. You know those people that you've met where you just feel so attracted and so at one that's what it is. But also, remember our vibrational meter that we talked about yesterday where when there is strong positive emotion,which means passion, which means true connection, which means strong wanting and no resistance and on the other end of that stick is that strong negative emotion, lots of times those people that are the raspiest, most hard to deal with people that you run into, they are soul mates too. And one or the other of you, and usually both of you,are not well connected to source and when you rendezvous you are on different wavelengths. And so there is a clashing. There is a powerful and strong desire and intent that in this moment is not being satisfied and when the two of you get together and see each other in your disconnection, sparks fly from the friction.
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