Is Abraham teaching selfishness?

For Abe, the most important thing is that you feel good and stay in vibrational alignment with your source. That is your number one job! "Sometimes people hear us say these words and, they worry. They say,"Abraham, you teach selfishness!" And we say, indeed we do, because if you're not selfish enough to connect to Source Energy, you don't have anything to give anybody, anyway. They say, "But, we worry! If you teach people to just please themselves, then will not they be out there doing all kinds of abhorrent things that will negatively affectthe rest of us?" And we say, any abhorrent things that they do only affect them and others that are a vibrational match to them. They cannot assert themselves into your experience."