EVOKING THE PERFECT MATE

The perfect mate is one that makes you feel good. To be the perfect mate, you make your partner feel good. You do this by looking for the positive aspects in each other. You think you want to be loved, but what you want is the feeling of love coming out of you. When the other evokes that from you, that is why you feel loved.
You are wanting to interact with someone because you are wanting the feeling of love to be evoked from you, and you are wanting a subject, or a target upon which to direct your love. You are wanting the gloriousdeliciousness of the physical experience. You are wanting someone who is a friend, someone to respond, someone who seeks adventure, someone who wants to laugh at the things you are wanting to laugh at. You have launched long before today a very powerful creation. Keep your eyes open for it, and stop being so guarded about it. Exaggerate, add emphasis, talk to yourself everyday about what you are wanting. As you get up in the morning and beat on your chest, say to yourself "Today I am going to see evidence of the coming of my perfect mate. Today I am going to look under every rock, around every corner, I am going to keep my eyes open for that perfect mate. Today I am going to find, or at least get closer to that perfect mate.
"Then you have awakened your guidance system! You have stated what you want. Your guidance system is aware. You walk into a room full of people, you feel yourself inspired to go and talk to that one, and you say "Not that one, that one doesn't look the way I want."
And now you are right back into the arena of lack. That one may lead you to one who will lead you to one who will lead you to one who will lead you to one. You cannot see the path that is before you. If you will follow the positive emotion, you will very swiftly be drawn to them. You see, that other one is out there looking for you! He is saying where is she, and you are saying where is he, and we are saying we will not play cupid. Law of attraction does a very good job of that. As reach of you focuses on what you are wanting, the connection must be.
Mating is the same as co-creating. Co-creating is the same as soul creating. Identify what you want, pay attention to what you feel, and you will be guided to that which you seek. Look for the positive aspects in every one you see. As you see in another a quality that you don't want, and you say "Not that one, not that one." You are closing a door that is keeping all from coming because a critical attitude about them is keeping all of them away from you. As you begin to say "Positive aspect there, positive aspect there" you attract to you the one that has all of those positive aspects. In your pickiness, be a selective sifter, look for what you are wanting, don't guard yourself against what you are not wanting. Never make the statement "I don't want that one, I don't like that one." Make statements such as "Ooh, that is a nice one, ooh, I like the attitude there, that one is very beautiful." As you focus on positive aspects of others, even if they are already connected to another, look for the positive aspects, and by doing that you attract
that into your experience. Your mate is very near you. We are talking in terms of time. Be expectant.