Virtual Reality

This Virtual Reality Process is not one where you try to fix something that is broken. It is one where you deliberately activate a scene in your own mind that causes you to offer a vibration matching the scene you have activated—and as you practice visualizing pleasant scenes in your mind, these good-feeling vibrations can then become your new set-point.
Most are presenting the majority of their vibrational offering in response to things, people, and conditions that they are observing. And so, the lives of most people continue to unfold very much as they have been, with no significant improvement from day to day. This is because there is not much thought being offered that is much different from what has already been experienced. However, the game of Virtual Reality will change that, because an application of this process, on any subject of your choice, will cause your vibration to move far beyond where you are currently standing. Since the Universe responds to your vibration—and not to what you are living right now, amazing things can now begin to flow into your experience even though they have never done so before. The thing that we see that most commonly trips you up is that in the contrast—which is necessary and valuable to help you give birth to a rocket of desire—often there is an activation of many kinds of jumbled Energy. Usually, in order for you to know that you want something, you have to pretty well have chewed on details or events that have helped you know what you do not want. In other words, when do you speak most clearly about wanting to be well? Usually when you are less than well, correct? When does your strongest desire for more money really kick into high gear? Most likely when there is not enough money.
When you are confused, that is when you want more clarity, right? When you are overwhelmed, isn’t that when you want more serenity? And when you are bored, isn’t that when you want more stimulation? Remember, the Creative Workshop Process comprises three steps: (1) Ask (that is easy, you do it all the time). (2) Answer the asking (that is not your work—Source Energy does that). (3) Allow (be in the receiving mode of what you are asking for). It is important that you realize that Steps 1 and 3 are different. When you are focused upon, or praying for, something you really want or need, often you are not a vibrational match to the thing you want. Instead, you are a match to the absence of it.
When the bills all come at once, there is not enough money to pay them, and you feel frightened and fearful and say, “I need more money,” or you try to use more positive words such as “I want more money,” you are doing Step 1. You are setting forth your desire. But you are not in Step 3, so you are holding yourself apart from what you are asking for.
You are continually asking. You cannot stop asking; contrast is evoking the desire from you. Your real work is to find a way to be in the receiving mode. It is similar to wanting to receive a satellite or radio signal. To do so, you have to set your receiver on the same wavelength as the transmitter or you are going to get static; you are not going to get a clear signal. In like manner, you recognize the alignment of your (transmitted and received) signals by feeling the alignment of your emotions. In other words, when you are out there in that ragged place where you are feeling frazzled and frustrated or angry and hurt, you are out of alignment.
We want you to relax and not be so hard on yourself when you find yourself in a place of negative emotion. Negative emotion is a good thing in that it is letting you know that some tweaking is required in order for you to be in harmony with who you are.
If you are really out of sync; in other words, if you can really feel that you are not in a good-feeling place, then a more soothing process that we would recommend would be that of Meditation. Because when you quiet your mind, you stop thought, and when you stop thought, your vibration automatically rises. Of course, if you can find something to focus upon, something that you can easily appreciate, then the Rampage of Appreciation Process would be an even better one because you can do it under all conditions no matter where you are. But this process of Virtual Reality will help you in two specific ways: You will become accustomed to the way non-resistance feels, so you will recognize when you have moved into resistant thought at an earlier stage when it is easier to move back out again. And, in every moment that you are in your state of non-resistance, the Law of Attraction will be responding to you in a positive way.
The more you practice the process of Virtual Reality, the more you will be practicing the vibration of no resistance; the more you practice the vibration of no resistance, the better you will feel, and, of course, the things that you want will now easily begin to flow into your experience as well. For example, imagine the following scenario:
Place: A lovely, white sandy beach. “It’s wintertime, but the weather is delightful. It’s 70 degrees with scattered clouds, and the air feels wonderful on my skin. “I have no shoes on, so I’m enjoying the feeling of the cool, clean sand under my feet. My clothes are loose fitting and very comfortable, and I feel very good in my body. And I am lazily walking down the
beach, feeling strong, happy, and secure. “My five-year-old granddaughter is with me, and she is loving this glorious day, as I am. She’s glad to be with me, but she does not seem to need me to entertain her; and I’m enjoying watching her happy, selfempowered activity as she runs, digs in the sand, and enjoys this lovely beach. I’m very glad that we’ve come to this place. It was a very good choice. “My granddaughter runs up to me, holding a shell that she’s discovered, and with a gleeful sweet voice and bright sparkling eyes, she says, ‘Grandma, I’m so happy we’re here. Thank you for bringing us here.’ And I tell her, ‘You are most welcome, sweet girl. I love being here with you.’“Now this is a good time to get out.

My Lover Left Me

My boyfriend, whom I‘ve been living with for the last two years, moved out. We didn‘t agree oneverything, and we did fight about some things, but nothing very serious. I thought that we were doing OK. And I can‘t believe that he doesn‘t want us to be together anymore. He swears that he is
not gonna be with someone else. But how can you supposedly love someone, and then just all of a sudden move out, for no reason?“
Most people who want a relationship believe that a mediocre relationship is better than no relationship at all. But we do not agree with that. In other words, since the potential for a glorious relationship always exists, we never encourage settling for less.
Remember, that you feel the way you do because of the mix of vibrations within you, and that no two people feel exactly the same way about anything. It‘s possible for two people to be sharing what appears to be an identical experience, but one person is enjoying it while the other is not,
because their individual mixture of vibrations vary. Rather than trying to figure out what the other person wants and then putting your efforts towards satisfying his or her desires, it‘s much more productive and satisfying for you to be directing your thoughts toward the things that you desire.
Whatever you‘re living is causing you to make regular deposits into your vibrational escrow account. So, anytime something happens that you do not want, you send out a request for what you prefer instead. So, for example, now that your lover has left your experience, your request for someone who wants to be with you has been submitted in a stronger clearer way than ever before.
Many of your experiences throughout this lifetime have caused you to make request. And so you‘ve created a magnificent relationship that waits for you in vibrational escrow and calls you toward the fulfillment of it. And as you find more downstream thoughts, you get closer to the realization of
these desires. But today while your heart is breaking, you‘re going against the current, and you‘re not allowing yourself to get closer to the relationship that waits for you.
People are often amazed when we tell them that every bad thing that‘s ever happened to them in a relationship is part of the reason why such a magnificent relationship now waits for them. However,if they continue to beat the drum of those bad things that have happened, they‘ll continue to deprive themselves of the discovery of that wonderful creation. Some might argue that even though it seems that someone abruptly made a decision and left, there had to be signs of your relationship breaking down you were missing, and that if you had been more tuned in to your boyfriend, you might have been able to turn this around, if you had caught the trouble at an earlier stage. But we are quite pleased that you did not see this coming, because that means you were not looking for trouble, and we can also tell that you were predominantly focused upon the positive aspects of your relationship.
„So, if I was predominantly thinking positive thoughts, then why did he leave?“ Well, this is something we really want you to come to understand. When you are predominantly feeling good, all things are aligning for your ultimate satisfaction. In other words, your life with its ups and downs
has caused you to create a vibrational escrow of a wonderful future life experience, and you‘re being called toward it. So, whenever you‘re feeling good, that wonderful future is in the process ofmaking its way to you, and you to it. Simply put, anyone who moves out of your experience for any
reason, was not a match to the wonderful future that‘s waiting for you in vibrational escrow.
Here is something else that you might find fascinating. Let‘s say that you‘re watching your boyfriend closely, and you desire to please him in every way possible. And you had begun to notice that he was beginning to be unhappy and no longer completely satisfied in your relationship. And
then, in your awareness of his unhappiness you began to feel worried and so you tried harder and harder to make him happy. The most important thing that we want you to understand is that in your focus, which caused your unhappiness, you‘re no longer a match to your own desires. So now
you‘re moving upstream, not downstream. You‘re a match to his unhappiness, not to your true desires. And in that situation you would probably hold him in your experience longer. In other words, in focusing upon your boyfriend‘s unhappiness, and in your efforts to modify conditions to
bring him to a happier place, you‘re actually becoming more out of alignment with who you really are and what you realy want. You soothed him, and so he stays longer, and many think that is success. But from the bigger picture what has happened is that you have worked to please him
instead of yourself, and under those conditions, in time, you would be the one who would be wanting to leave.
By being unaware of his discomfort, and by continuing to focus upon positive aspects in your relationship, you remain true to your real vision of the relationship. And since he is not matching that true vision, he is leaving. And friend, we promise you, that is not a bad thing. When you
consistantly feel good, even when people are freaking out around you, and even leaving you, what you really want must find you. It will be more difficult now, but in the same way you did not let his increasing unhappiness effect you, if you can now not allow his leaving to upset you, then the realtionship that you‘ve been crafting all along will come to you. And then your work will be the same again – to look for positive aspects.
Do not get drawn into anyone‘s drama. Do not stand on your head to please others in a distorted way of soothing their misalignment. It‘s better to let those things that are not a match leave your experience.
This pain you‘re feeling is multifaceted, as it touches on so many things that matter to you. Not only do you feel unloved when what you want is love, but you feel insecure when what you want is security. You feel abandoned while what you want is to be adored. And while we understand that so soon after your lover has left you, is not easy to find good -feeling thoughts, still that must be your dominant intention. The LOA is matching you up with circumstances, events and other people who match your vibration. And so, if you will deliberately choose your vibration, especially one that matches your own specifically created vibrational escrow, someone you would consider to be a perfect mate must come to you. Conversely, if you do not line up with the lover you really want,
you will attract the lover that matches how you feel. And if you feel abandoned, you can only attract another who will behave in the same way.
With far less time and effort than you think, you can come into alignment with your idea of a perfect relationship, and there will be a time, not so far from now, when you will look back on this lover who just left you, with great appreciation for the serious contribution he helped you make
toward the creation of your perfect mate. You may want to write him a letter that says, „Thank you for breaking my heart, and in the process helping me to clarify what I really want. Thank you for the painful experience of giving birth to such powerful rockets of desire, that when I turned in the direction of that desire, I was swiftly transported into this blissful relationship. It is my desire that your interaction with me has provided you with the same wonderful benefit.“
Many people work very hard to try to make things work out. But we want you to understand that when you work to bring yourself into alignment with you, rather than into alignment with what someone else wants you to be, then the Universe will bring you the match. Just work to maintain your alignment, and the Universe will deliver to you partners who are aligned. It is Law.
So, start where you are and reach for increasingly better feeling thoughts.
For example,I am in a state of shock and depression. I don‘t know what to do.
I can‘t believe this has happened. I thought he was the one.
Why would he leave me on like that? Why would he pretend that he wanted to be with me forever?
Now, see if you can move from your feeling of powerlessness. Reach for something that makes you at least feel like getting out of bed. For instance,This is the last time something like this will happen to me.
I don‘t deserve to be treated like this.
I am glad that he left because clearly he is not what I thought he was.
Negative as these thoughts are, they are giving you a feeling of relief. Keep going.
Clearly we aren‘t right for each other.
There is no point in wasting more time figuring that out.
This was an extremely clarifying situation for me.
I‘ve learned so much in such a short period of time.
Thinking back, I can sort of feel this coming. At the time I didn‘t want to see it, but now I realize it had been coming. I am not sorry that this has happened.
Nothing terrible has really happened here.
It‘s not a bad thing to find out that what I really want is somewhere else.
This relationship has helped to more clearly define who I am and what I‘m lookng for.
I feel newly energized regarding relationships.
I am gonna take my time as I move forward. There is no urgency about figuring this out.
I am actually happy to have some breathing space.
In a strange way I‘m looking forward to what comes next. I know that what will come next
will be better because of this relationship.
Some day I may thank him for helping me to get clear about what I do want. However, that day is not today. Well, maybe it is.. a little.

You have to admit, you do feel better. And that is your only work. If you will continue to feel good, everything that you desire must come.